You've built the business. Now let's get your life back.
Your business should fund your life, not become it.
Your SELFISH era is waiting for you
Step into your SELFISH era and get paid fairly whilst enjoying the fun, flexibility, fulfillment and freedom you wanted when you started your own business
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SELFISH era is the community for you if you want to become the woman who puts herself and her business first without feeling guilty
After six months in the SELFISH era programme, Sabrina had made more money even though she'd had more time off - she had been on more holidays, stopped working in the evenings; and she had even been shortlisted for an award!
You want more joy
Somewhere along the way, life became one long list of things to organise, remember, manage and do.
Your business is growing, your family needs you, your ideas never stop flowing... and yet fun keeps getting bumped to "one day".
But play isn't a reward for getting everything done. It's where your best ideas come from. When you create space to be silly, curious and fully present, you stop staring at the same problems and start seeing fresh opportunities.
You want to feel calm
You've become so good at carrying everything that you've forgotten what it feels like not to. Even when you get a spare hour, your brain is still running through tomorrow's to-do list. Rest feels unproductive. And relaxing often comes with a side order of guilt.
But you weren't designed to run on empty. Imagine having the energy to follow through on the ideas that matter, the patience to be the mum, partner and friend you want to be, and the capacity to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to create.
You want big success
You want to make more money, so you can make even more impact. You want to grab more opportunities that make you do a little happy dance in your kitchen and trust that you'll be able to meet them with confidence.
Your next breakthrough isn't in the perfect new strategy. It's hiding behind a walk on the beach. A quiet afternoon. A proper day off. A ridiculous amount of laughter with friends. A rested brain and nervous system that finally have enough space to connect the dots.
Step into your SELFISH era, with a hop, skip and a jump!
You've grown up as the responsible, sensible, mature one.
You're organised, reliable, dependable, conscientious, compassionate, resilient.
You've learned to put everyone else's needs before your own.
You feel guilty when you take time for yourself, and resentful when you don't (and then you feel guilty for feeling resentful - it's exhausting!).
You just can't win.
It doesn't have to be like this.
You can have success without self sacrifice, business without burnout.
The Selfish Era helps you create the conditions for your best work.
Because when you have more space to play, you have better ideas.
When you have more time to rest, you actually implement them.
Hop
This is the uncomfortable, wobbly bit that we all wish we could miss out. But until you create space and let go of what's been holding you back, you will struggle to move forward the way you really want to. Here we're looking at your responsibilities, hobbies, relationships, beliefs, people pleasing, and physical items and releasing what is no longer serving you, giving you the space and identity you need to hold to grow.
Skip
Don't worry, after the awkward hop, we get to smile as we get creative with the skip!
Daydream about your IDEAL future. If you had all the time and money you wanted, what would your life look and feel like? If you were guaranteed to get what you asked for, what would you ask for? When you're asked to do something or have an idea, it's now as simple as asking if it will take you closer to that dream, or slow you down.
Jump
You've created the space and got clear on your vision. Now you get to make it happen! This is all about getting out of your comfort zone and making that dream your reality. Living the life you've been dreaming of, doing work you love. We'll be planning your life to balance work, rest and play. Your business might be your favourite hobby, but we're going to make sure it's creating a beautiful life beyond it too!
What's included?
Monday Momentum 10-11am every week - set your week up for success with clear intentions and priorities, so you're not drowning in your to do list by Wednesday
Friday Finish 1-2.30pm every week - a co-working session where you can get things cleared off your to do list so you can switch off for the weekend knowing it's all sorted
Slack Community - support each other throughout, also fantastic if you're not able to join one of the live sessions
Best of all - there's no course to feel guilty that you're behind with, no replays from sessions that you feel guilty for never watching; just regular, live support
What my clients say
Yvonne was passionate and dedicated to supporting her clients. If anything, she cared TOO much, and was taking on too much for her clients, leaving her unable to switch off and relax. Through this programme, she set healthy boundaries and improved her mental health and felt happier, calmer and lighter.
"It's weird - I'm doing less, so I feel more calm and less stressed, and my clients are actually achieving more!"
Wennie was holding herself back trying to be formal and professional - imposter syndrome was kicking in hard! Through this programme she understood being her authentic self got her the results she'd been hoping for all along.
"Thank you so much! I loved your approach and the way you bring personal values and emotions into business so I can be true to myself. I feel like things are really moving forward now!"
Steve was feeling overwhelmed and bored with his work and had started applying for jobs. Through this programme, he reduced his hours to have more time for family, friends and hobbies - and his income actually increased because he was enjoying his work more.
"Just wanted to let you know I've had my best cash month ever and I'm only working three days! Can't believe I almost gave this up! Thank you for getting me back on track."
About Your Coach
Chloe is an eldest daughter, and was a sandwich carer for many years - working, home educating her SEN son, and caring for her parents. She understands the pull of multiple conflicting responsibilities and the importance of boundaries and self care. She will show up with the Big Sister Energy you need to move forward - love, celebration, support, and the brutal honesty you need to challenge you to grow.
Before founding Hopscotch Coaching, Chloe had 20 years coaching experience in the Welfare to Work sector and charity sector, including training coaches on a CPD-accredited NHS funded programme. She led a health coaching charity throughout the covid pandemic, which led to them receiving the prestigious Queen's Award for Voluntary Service in 2021.
Chloe Myers is an EMCC Senior Practitioner Accredited Coach. She founded Hopscotch Coaching in 2022 and has helped over 100 people hop, skip and jump into every day with a smile by creating a better balance of work, rest and play.
She is the author of Work Hard, Rest Hard, Play Hard and has a challenging yet fun coaching style that will mean you'll be smiling - even as she pulls you out of your comfort zone to bigger, brighter, better things!
